by Jessica | Jul 5, 2018 | Confidence, Taking Action
Once upon a time, I thought life was just “happening to me” and I had to go with the flow of it. I thought I had to be friends with people I had a history with but really didn’t have anything in common with anymore. I felt obligated to stay with an...
by Jessica | Feb 27, 2017 | Confidence
Tenacity is the dedication to go on when the most attractive proposition is to give up. Perseverance over time and persistent determination. Newsflash: You will need this in every area of your life to be successful. Career, love, parenting, health, your...
by Jessica | Feb 10, 2017 | Confidence
I like this attitude. I like it A LOT. Many of my clients come to me as people pleasers. Afraid to ruffle any feathers, they choose instead to quietly resent. Suppressing their inner truth so much that they lose touch with what they actually stand for....
by Jessica | Jan 12, 2017 | Confidence
Are you a good teacher? I heard this on Dr.Phil years ago and it’s always stuck with me. People will get away with what you let them get away with. You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce. It’s really that...
by Jessica | Dec 23, 2016 | Confidence
Somewhere along the way in my childhood, I became a people-pleaser. Most of my decisions were based on whether or not it was going to make someone like me or not. If I sensed that I had not charmed my way into someone’s heart, it would literally keep me up at...
by Jessica | Dec 16, 2016 | Confidence
So I used to be embarrassed about the fact that “fun” is one of my core values. I would think, “oh people are going to think I’m such a flake or a party girl . I should care more about world peace and politics than fun.” And I do...